What can I do, daughter owes me 2500 euro?

I borrowed money from our daughter. The transfer went to the EX friend, so that their debts are settled with him. I thought she had set up a standing order as agreed. Then she asked me to order a laptop at the mail-order company. Because I get> percent. Also there she wanted to transfer the money to me. Nothing is in my account. What can I do. When I speak to her, she is just cheeky and indignant. I do not know

Never give her money again and only order in advance in cash. Maybe also reduce the contact to her. You do not have to be insulted by her.

Talk to her and tell her that if she does not start to pay the money, all the favors will go away for the first time. Including of course further financial support.

No more money. No idea how old she is, but I'd do a harder gait: asking for rent, not having dinner or asking for money, not brushing or asking for money, just that she realizes what money is and what you do for her and what you withdraw can. And quite frankly, presumably, it would be instructive for her to break off communication until she starts paying installments or showing a way to make money.

Think of it as an urgent educational measure that you MUST give as a mother. Obviously she does not have any respect at the moment either. He is quite attached to it, if you let yourself be fooled by her.

She lives with her boyfriend and is 22

But she comes ev. So far still scrounge you? No matter the same, make it clear that it is not i.o. Is and only forgotten when she repays it. If you do care about her, she can handle it, people usually want a good contact with her mother.

She is simply young and stupid and can learn from it, but only if her behavior has unpleasant consequences.

But try to make a repayment contract with closing date / installment repayment contract with generous (realistic) dates.