I hope someone of you is still awake and can help me.
Unfortunately, I can't make any paragraphs with my laptop, I'm sorry, I try to keep it as short as possible.
I met a man recently, a few years older than me, but not necessarily an adult. Others would call him (not pretty) and they do, but for me it is… He just had something special about him. I would not say that I'm not familiar with men… But I can't assess him.
We met almost every day within a week (get to know each other), the meeting suggestions came exclusively from him. Now the first two dates were not particularly sparkling… He smokes weed, which is not that bad in and of itself, but on the second date it was so bad (also drunk) that he had to vomit all night, and he also took three Once a bath and lay there like a baby (don't mean it bad) but it was like that. I stood by his side, covered him and scratched his head until he fell asleep, and then in the morning I went shopping for something to make him feel better before he was really awake. The next dates weren't that… Actually, they were nice, even if we didn't do anything special. Now the problem is that he never answers or writes… And that gets me down. In the getting-to-know-you phase it is normal to write with each other, but with him? Nothing… Not a good morning, good night, how are you? Really nothing. Just sentences like, "are you coming"? And if I ask him something like What that is between us now comes nothing. For information (we haven't had sex yet) But nothing else comes when I ask him something. In the end, I was fed up with blocking him now… (because I've been waiting for an answer for days), don't know if that was a mistake. But you can speak plain text… I don't understand people like that. What do you think about it and what could I do? Or should I let it go completely? I thank you for any advice.
Have you ever addressed him personally?
Oh sorry, actually wanted to use the demand function
Better let it be. I know how men think, but people like that are funny. If he somehow tries to write you listen to what he says, if not then you have your answer
Forget the man.
I would like to. But it doesn't come to the next meeting… If he never answers correctly, unfortunately
Hey It's just my view of it, but I'll still give you my advice. I would try to talk to him in peace because talking about it always gives the answer anyway. I'm of the opinion that if he only ever writes to you you will come "and that if you want an answer to something important that he is not so serious with you but only wants a casual thing because I'm of the opinion that a guy is serious He would also be interested to write you "good morning". So you'd be advised to talk to him and if that doesn't work and it doesn't itch it will block him and let it go. Hope it helps you a little