Someone stole me badly when I wasn't paying attention on the way and the laptop is now gone.
I just had to think about that again…
how can I forgive myself or can I not help it
First of all, no one is really stupid (maybe a few exceptions)
You can place an ad
I had
unfortunately it didn't work
how can I ever accept that or get over it…
What did the person look like?
Tall and dark-skinned.
I even talked to her…
Then I don't understand why the police are still looking for the perpetrator
Write on a piece of paper how it came about. Describe the situation and what else is going through your head. Make sure you don't offend yourself. So instead of: "I was so stupid" rather: That was such stupid behavior ".
Let him through every day or as often as you can. Do this until you don't care.
You can learn from stupid behavior. But be careful that there's no exaggerated obsessional neurosis. Knew someone who always checked whether his spin was complete.
You should learn from this negative experience and do better from now on.
Your insight is a first step. Only the stupid does not learn from his mistakes.
It would be really bad e.g. If you had carelessly or intentionally seriously harmed yourself or someone else. So you will soon be gone with a black eye over the material loss you can handle…
Relatively, you can learn from this not to be so naive anymore.
You can forgive yourself it is in the past and you have had no influence on it for a long time.
In the future, just pay attention to whom you trust
Yes.
Which of course can't exonerate the really guilty (the thief). By the way, my son had the same experience as you. He learned from damage.
