How do you find my counter arguments?

ch
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How do you find my counter arguments:

Someone thinks my lifestyle is silly because I fulfill requests like laptops and cell phones.

He thinks that I'm not happy with it and that his lifestyle is rather better.

He told me:

When I lay in a beach chair with my son in Havelland at night and counted shooting stars. Or when I went on a moonlight hike with friends on vacation.

Those were unforgettable moments that nobody takes away from me and that are worth more than money. That's why you will never get to know something like that.

Some people are introverted. They don't like that sort of thing. Do not feel happy with it.

Is that a role model to be happy?

Bo

I think you mean introvert, am I right?

ch

Yes

Bo

I think that's a valid argument

sa

It was a she, not a he and you quoted a user again without being allowed to do that.

And the fact that you are whimpering for confirmation like a small child is a sign of a lot, but not of a person who is at rest, is at peace with himself and is satisfied with the way he lives.

ch

You can't understand that your unforgettable moments are of no value.

Some people are antisocial or introverted. They find things like that stupid and silly. No luck with that.

But they are mega happy when they successfully complete a rip-off or when they buy what they want. This gives them a lot of dopamine.

Za

Hi, I can't see any arguments. That is essentially the presentation of opinions and an "anecdotal" example.

I also do not understand the thesis to be argued. How can a "lifestyle" be silly?

https://www.duden.de/rechtschreibung/albern_schlicht_Adjektiv

silly: simple-minded, foolish, childish or small, worthless, insignificant

Why shouldn't you be happy with your cell phone or laptop? Surely they can be very good and high-quality devices?

How you "feel" about your lifestyle can't be the subject of objective arguments - everyone can be "satisfied" with something else.

I also can't understand why the owner of a cell phone can't lie in a wicker basket at night in Havelland and watch shooting stars. In fact, I think most of those who lie there looking at shooting stars at night actually have a cell phone on them.

There's no logical connection.

In this respect, unfortunately, it is an incomprehensible compilation of sentences whose inner logic does not reveal itself to me.

sa

That's nonsense. Introverts may need less hustle and bustle and fewer social contacts, but they are no less empathic. According to your logic, introverts are all criminally inclined, anti-social materialists. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

You should just have sunk into the ground in shame, this statement is so embarrassing. And so offensive to all other introverts.

ch

You can't understand that there are many people who are all of this at the same time.

The fact that I ask a question where I ask how the others think of my behavior or how the others think of my cell phone is no boasting, because I wanted to know more about what makes the others tick

Gu

Arguments are only given in the context of a discussion. There are currently none, so your so-called counter-arguments are completely pointless. Quoting other users is forbidden.

Gu

Get tested for autism. Autistic people also can't assess what makes others tick or how they affect others.

sa

As if you were learning from other people's answers and reactions. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜πŸ˜

ch

The number of people on the autism spectrum who work full-time lags far behind the number who are able, and quite willing to work full-time.

People on the spectrum in their twenties are https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2015/04/21/401243060/young-adults-with-autism-more-likely-to-be-unemployed-isolated to be unemployed than other peers with disabilities, and the odds are worse for young adults on the spectrum who come from http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/129/6/1042. Some sources indicate that only http://www.thinkingautismguide.com/2018/02/why-is-autistic-unemployment-rate-so.html of people on the spectrum with college degrees are employed.

https://blog.theautismsite.greatergood.com/auticon-hires-autism/?fbclid=IwAR1vbZzwQnjSr1rotrlrEApMqtWOgRPAtvS3ksBB7aBc9_F425oJphLVLTk

Di

What does that have to do with your question again?

sa

Nothing. But you have once again exposed one of his dozen contradictions and shown that friends and shared experiences are important to him. It is the same as always: he can't stand the finger in the wound.

ch

You have a simple mentality.

not important.

If the framework conditions are right, then it is great to have experiences with the person concerned. That's one of many things in life.

Can do anything. Nothing has to be done.

Di

You have a simple mentality.

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Yes, obviously.

And when you can't think of anything else, you try devaluing and insulting.

ch

I know many people in Egypt who did not come to Germany because they would miss their friends and family.
They even asked me: are there any Arab communes there? Because they were afraid of being alone.

I'm not like that at all. I don't care about family and friends. I have also broken off contact with my mother since entering the country.

Di

But the problem persisted. You can't run away from that.

ch

Why should I discuss this with you too? And why should I prove something?

LOL. No matter what you think

sa

"They even asked me: are there any Arab communes there? Because they were afraid of being alone."

Yes, if you go abroad and just want to stay with your own kind, you don't have to go either.

"I also broke off contact with my mother since entering the country."

This is the great son, for whom you can of course keep an apartment free…

ch

You want normal empathic honest people.

Individualism, narcissism, selfishness, capitalism have ruined some people, and they live in delusions.

Di

Why should I discuss this with you too?

You don't have to. But you are missing the chance for a free coaching session.

No matter what you think

Just like we don't care what you think.

Capitalism has ruined some people, and they live in madness.

No one of us could be more capitalist than you. After all, you're the one who has to keep buying new things to be happy.

And, as mentioned so often, if you don't like it here, just go home.

You want normal empathic honest people.

And where do you want to find them in Egypt? The country where you say the people are even more ripped off than you?

You all stay nice in your developing country and look after your goats. There's no need for this kind of "empathy" here.