My Turkish friend is beating me?

I have a big problem with my boyfriend and hope you can help me a little, or that someone reports with similar experiences.

Background knowledge: He is 19 and has Turkish roots, I'm 15 and we have been zsm for 5 months.

Our relationship started happily and very normally. There were no arguments at that time, I was allowed to meet with my friends and otherwise it was a normal relationship. Then, I think after the first month of relationship, he started to change. He wanted me to delete all male friends and acquaintances. Back then I didn't think much of it and followed his instructions. I have to say that my best friend back then warned me that she would start and in the end I shouldn't even have any contact with her. She was right. After several arguments, I was not even allowed to have contact with her anymore. He blocked everything except the friends in my school. The stupid action on my part: I tolerated everything. I didn't fight back, today I know that I was laying the foundation for him to completely suppress myself in the near future. But what should I'm absolutely in love with him. The first really hard argument with him came after about 2 months. I have to say that he can't argue without insulting me abysmally. So we argued and then he hit me in the face with such a force that my glasses flew off my head in a high arc. Then he threw a plate on the floor, the splinters barely hitting my domestic rabbit. After raging a little further with anger, he apologized for everything. I naive girl - forgive him. I let him turn my head every time because he also has a very loving nature. But much worse arguments followed. He pulled me down the stairs by my jacket, hurled bottles at me, kicked my bike to scrap metal, smashed my laptop and smartphone, tossed my handbags around endlessly, destroying their contents, and finally he even wanted my rabbit out of it Pulling and killing the stable, which I was happy to prevent. In addition, he never treats me squeamishly. If he grabs me by the upper arm and pulls me around or spits in my face and insults me at the end is still harmless. The worst situation was in his car, we were arguing over a disagreement and this time I stuck to my opinion, didn't give in. Then he screamed at me extremely and started beating my head. I couldn't defend myself! He pulled me by the hair and beat me on the back of my head. I forgave him. He always said that women belong in the kitchen and in the bedroom if the man wants, and that's the same with us, so I have to spread my legs every time, I don't know what I'm doing

Break up. He doesn't love you and who knows what's coming… The best thing is to go to the police with your parents right away, report him, take an order. The man is sick, but you've probably already noticed that. In any case, it can't go on like this

He is in custody

That sounds hard now, but separate yourself from him! If you forgive him again and again he will always concern you physically and he will take it for granted. Do not be so naive, there are certain limits and he has long exceeded them. Talk to your best friend, parents etc. About this and make it clear to your friend that you don't want this, you can already defend yourself. I would also advise you to report him to the police for assault, such men are very bad and they will do it over and over and over again, no matter what… The guy didn't deserve you at all!

At least something… I wish you all the best and above all that you will soon be better:-)

Excellent!

He is in custody

He takes away your right to self-determination, he isolates you, he wields massive physical violence against you and he humiliates you.

This is not a friend, but a violent offender.

Contact your parents and file a criminal complaint against this lousy piece of D…

And, no, he is not your friend, he is living out his lack of self-confidence towards a young girl by force.

This is not love, but he sees you as his property.

I can advise, report, and stop you from approaching, otherwise you will end up in the hospital with serious injuries or worse.

A lot of strength and love

Well, optimally: Clear everything that belongs to you and your parents back and hope that the judiciary will do a good job and not throw everything back in because allegedly there's statement against statement or the card with the "non-German roots" "plays out

Hopefully at 15 she would still have lived at home. Otherwise, this is also a case for the youth welfare office.

You absolutely have to break up and get help. This can't go on like this anymore! A known one had the same problem… I know it is difficult and you are afraid that he will hit you even more, but that in his anger he even kills living things, this is really going too far! If you don't know how to break up or are too scared, call this number: 116 111. This is the number against grief and it's anonymous and free. They always help me with my bigger problems…

I hope I could help you and that you will soon feel better!

Hopefully only in transit to the "right" detention.

How without your parents noticing?

What else is there to think about? Break up with the guy as soon as possible. If you don't care about such expensive and valuable things as a laptop or smartphone (that he destroyed them). You shouldn't care about yourself. He brutally hits you and you put up with it all. Break up with him. And it's best to report it to the police, too, for property damage and bodily harm. He has to learn that his views are ancient and out of date and that he can't afford to do everything just because he is a man.