Avoid eating with parents?

Okay, hey. I'm 13 years old, 165 cm tall and 44 kg heavy. I think I'm of normal weight. But my parents, especially my mother, always say I don't eat much! I think I eat enough. Today it was about 700 calories. Well, I hate eating with my family and mostly because they always eat when I'm not hungry. And I have to eat with. I mean, it's much better to eat only when you're really hungry, isn't it? And when I didn't want to have dinner with them lately, my mom took my cell phone and my laptop away… She keeps saying that I'm too thin blah blah blah. For a while she often told me that I gained weight and so on and now that? In any case, I don't feel like eating with my family anymore. Does anyone have a permanent "excuse" to eat when I'm hungry? Thank you ever for your answers 🥰

Ps. I don't even think I'm really thin, especially not my stomach, but well, she should just talk 🙄

Your parents are reasonably afraid that you may develop anorexia.

Your BMI is borderline at 16.2! And 700 kcal a day are clearly not enough. That you count calories at your age is already an alarm signal.

The rest of your comments don't sound very healthy either. Please show this answer to your parents, they should introduce you to a psychologist in real life for safety.

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from where I know this? Completed psychology studies - work in trauma therapy for children and adolescents

They'll have their reasons. You are almost underweight. Have small but regular meals with them.

But they only eat unhealthy because my father thinks that being thin is not nice.

700 are not enough? I had about 150 a day. 😂🤔

A clarifying conversation is needed - where both! Sides (you too) should understand each other's arguments. You probably know yourself that you are close to being underweight. Discuss - preferably with a doctor - how your weight should still develop healthily - and what you do if you stay under it.

On average an adolescent needs 2200 kcal per day. So 700 are not enough for 150 we don't need to discuss anymore

Your body needs more than 700 Kcal per day to maintain all vital radio. What you do is malnutrition and refusing to eat normally suggests an eating disorder / anorexia.

Unfortunately, taking your laptop away will not help, but clearly shows your mother's fainting. If you can't get past the normal eating rhythm of a 13-year-old, look for a psychotherapist. You are damn thin and should eat more urgently.

Be honest with yourself. You are very underweight and hardly consume calories to lose even more weight. The view of how your body looks is already distorted.

Your parents don't seem to have grasped the full scope yet, but they want you to be part of the meal to avoid losing weight.

Your path leads to anorexia and the well-known pathways of the clinic and suffering.

You can still avert it, trust your parents, you don't have to eat greasy things, but healthy eating with enough calories, you are still developing. Your brain and organs need enough nutrients and calories to mature. You do so much to yourself with your eating behavior.

Wishing you all the best

I'm not very underweight 😂 I think you must have miscalculated.

Do you want to start the pro-ana attention competition here now, who is the most efficient way to starve yourself? Disgusting attitude.

Show your mother this thread here and ask her to make a doctor's appointment with you tomorrow to be referred to a psychiatrist.

No, you miscalculate, and that's not a laugh.

My serious, take help

Otherwise you end up in a clinic and maybe even in a coffin

* Functions are supposed to mean, not radio.

So even if you don't want to hear it, your eating behavior doesn't sound so healthy. Your parents are right about that… You could still eat more. You're slim and your stomach flat enough, believe me. You imagine yourself a lot. It's best to try to change something now before things get worse. Honest.