Is it normal that my father beats me?

I'm a 14 year old girl, and have a question. My father works a lot and is often very stressed and aggressive when he comes home from work. That's why we fight each other a lot, and sometimes he gets aggressive, so he hits me (slapping, beating his bottom, etc.). He did that when I was younger (it was even worse, he choked me, etc.). ) For a while it was better, but now it starts again, and it hits me. My mother just stands by and does nothing, sometimes she beats me too. I'm really scared of my dad because whenever he gets home in the evening he gets aggressive. But he's still important to me because he's my dad and I do not want to go to the youth welfare office or anything.

Therefore, I wanted to know if it is still normal if he beats me about once in 1-2 weeks (that's actually not that much). Best regards

Please fast answer, because my parents are just not home and I have to write from my mother's laptop

Every beat is too much. If parents beat their own children, then they really have problems!

There are enough methods to reduce aggression, anger and stress, in case of doubt do an anti-aggression training with the psychologist - but never in your life you should draw your children in there! You can't help it, that he is so stressed out.

I would advise you to stay away from your father until he calms down.

Can you talk to a teacher or a teacher? No punches are normal. Neither few nor many. That is forbidden. You should not be afraid at home. Jugendamt is not that bad either. They will help you. You will not be separated directly from the parents. It used to be like that. Not any longer longer.

So that your father beats you, that is not. No matter, why he does that, it's not right! And for being so stressed at work, you can't do anything. I can understand that you do not want to go to the youth welfare office. But that would be correct.
I'd advise you to talk to your mother first. She seems very overwhelmed when she just stands by and says nothing. That's not right. But if your father is not home, talk to your mother in detail about something that needs to change. That you are afraid of him and can't continue like this. That she should help you please. Try that first
But it would be best, even if I can understand you, you would go directly to the youth welfare office.