First of all, I want to clarify what I mean by that… I mean the 1900s, 2000s and early 2010s. I'm 2004er but somehow this time seems much funnier, and happier. When I hear stories of my cousins, and see them fall into nostalgia, I'm saddened that these happy times are over. If I already in my mind call when we visited my cousins, and a laptop or a PC were something special, and the Internet to get a blatant. And how they chatted about students VZ… So life was more fun then? And do mobile phones do anything special? And what can I do to experience such things?
I was born in 1970. My parents were so typical: once a year for 2 weeks in the beach holiday. Or worse. Bus tours through England, Italy. Etc. Little attention was paid to the needs of the child. We also went to the zoo, the amusement park. But. These were all other times. Everything rather simple. Today, there are countless things more. Trampoline parks, indoor playgrounds. Schwarzlichtminigolf etc. There's more on Bespaßúng offered.
However, one had friends at the time. They arranged to meet at school, just drove up or phoned. They met outside. Get a colorful bag at the kiosk. And met at the youth center or on the playground.
Which at the time might be more: clubs. I think every one of my friends was in a club. Handball, table tennis. Etc. There was also a lot of that. In the evening in the disco. And I was a regular at the library.
There were pros and cons everywhere.
Wow I have described exactly the same problem in a question! I always thought I'm the only one with such a problem ^^. Can you even look at my were synonymous good answers.
We're fellow sufferers. I would like to be born 2000-2001, because of these things. Unfortunately, we can't change the current state of science. We have to accept it.
Sure, now (2019) it's boring to live teenage years. The trends are more expensive and monotonous, the German-speaking youtube community just stupid, in chat portals for students are only perverts or adults who want to stick to their youth. But on the other hand, is it a bit better right? We have internet access, LGBTQ is more accepted and the series classics of that time like Victorius are all done and we do not have to wait a year for the next season! In addition, films have improved significantly. The good thing is: we can make the present even more beautiful. For example, I just listen to the music of yesteryear and also do what goes into this 2010er style, then I feel a little better. Set your own trends in school! Make good YT content like it was back then!
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Okay sry jz the processing time was over. I can only advise you: accept and make your life beautiful. Also keep a little distance to Instagram and co. Do not follow the constantly new trends. You will not be the most popular one, I guess, aver happy (at least that's my experience). Good luck and if you need something you can always contact me.
Every time had its advantages and disadvantages. What prevails at that time can only be said or told by the people they experienced.
I felt the time in front of the PC as very relaxed and beautiful. One was free and lived differently. Unbound and tied up by cellphone, reachable at any time. There was great music and you went out. Since many people did that you also met a lot of young people. And they talked with their mouths. Of course, there were also dark sides of drugs until you drove by bus and train. One waited for a letter or went into the phone booth and hoped the letter had arrived, that one is called. Money was also scarce.
Yes, there were advantages over today.
But other times were worse. Those around the wars. Or the division, what most young people today no longer know or can only imagine.
For them, life is a playground built on technology in which they come first. The nature is completely uninteresting, they have neither learned how cooked, cleaned. For everything they ask the net. And they also believe what's there. They can't distinguish between right and wrong. Everything decides for you. Friends are barely in.
And if you are so muddled through here…
This is the real problem for many people to think "it was better to be better". People are mourning the past time and that's wrong. All times had their advantages and disadvantages. Instead, you should live in the here and now and enjoy life. What's over is over.
The happiest time of your own life you want back. Think that's the same with everyone. It's burned down and indelible.
If I remember that way: I had my first used mobile phone at the age of 16, the first Internet access at 22. For example, I found the 90s more beautiful and uncomplicated in any case. It was less stressful, no Whatsapp, no permanent control… "mimimii he read my message and does not write to me".
Hard Burned? It's like saying negative thinking is "burned down." The brain restructures with positive thinking each time, as well as vice versa. In this way, with our inner attitude, we can permanently change our thinking in which we're mindful and think and live in the here and now. As well as the positive thinking is learnable. You have to constantly strive to observe and correct your thoughts and correct yourself, then you will soon see the progress. LG.
If you forget the happiest moments, then you have Alzheimer's in the final stages. About six months ago, my friend could still remember, now she does not recognize me. Which of the happiest moments of his life was - that's different for everyone. But even the worst moments are stored indelibly.
Who knows if this is still possible in today's digital world? It's just about the PC, the phone. Many are alone. Do not look right or left. Only the fast computer world counts. Yes, where should the beautiful moments come from? I had beautiful, funny, loving, and stupid experiences that have burned down. Well a bad moment is not so bad when you hear the experiences of the older generation.
What counts as a happy moment today? That one is online? A gigantic car has?
Dear McBean. I think, we can hardly forget impressions that have severely marked us. Whether these are or were happy or unhappy moments. But always thinking before was beautiful makes us unhappy. On the one hand nice to think of the beautiful moments, on the other hand, to trust them is wrong. Living constantly in the past, making us unhappy, living in the future, making us anxious. What I'm really experiencing "now" is important. Of course, I also think of moments from before, but I have learned to live now. I also agree that our world is changing too digitally, but that is a fact we can't undo. And now constantly thinking how bad it is in the too digital world pulls us down even more. Acceptance is the solution. Change what you can change, what not, accept. I think it's a shame that people around me are too busy with cell phones instead of talking to each other, but I have to, you have to accept it, what else can you do? Everything is a two-sided knife. I just do not try to exaggerate and understate and follow my golden mean. Think positive and you see that you get stronger every day. Accept and you are better. Alzheimer's is another story that comes through our diet. But I like to write with you and understand you fully. LG.
Thanks for the star.
