My friend lent me his laptop. In the Google search queries there were things like "entry saunaclub" and I know it was maybe not okay, but on Google Maps you can track the location. There I saw, about six months ago he was with friends after a concert visit to a playhouse according to Google Maps. When I asked him about it, he said that it was not true, typical signs that he was lying and that it was a stressful situation for him. I accepted it "believed" him and we got along, but I KNOW exactly that he was in there. The trust is gone. When he goes out with friends in the evening and I'm at home, I can't sleep all night because I don't know where he really is. He loves me extremely and does everything for me. It's already talked about wedding. It's all pretty serious, family, etc., everyone loves him. I don't know what to do, my feelings for him are extreme. But it just stresses me a lot! Do you have any advice?
I like to go to the puff myself, but in a relationship? If you're really sure he's going to the puff, it's a tough decision. Live with it and marry him if you don't mind. If you think it will eat you up in the next few years, you have to make a final decision and confront him. And do it properly.
What did he say when you asked him? What was his excuse?
You only have the separation. I can't advise you anything else.
You can trust Google more than your friend.
There's only the separation. Who knows where else he goes with his friends. He'll get it somewhere else if he wants, whether you don't want it.
What's so bad about it now 😅?
First of all to the sauna club. Vll he just likes to be in a sauna. Know many who like to sit in one. I doubt he wants to go there because of the naked body.
To the Laufhaus. He may be there because his friends wanted to go inside. It may be that he himself did not find it so cool, but just sat in it and drank something with them. In the worst case, he found their bodies arousing and let them dance to them. So what? He wouldn't trade you for any of them anyway. You are the one he wants and desires EVERYTHING about you. Not only physically, but also your character.
So stop worrying and spying on him.
But shouldn't they talk to each other again honestly? What if he was drugged and just there with his buddies but didn't have sex himself or anything? Even if he actually cheated on her there and is in tears and she forgives him, everything is cool again, isn't it?
They can still separate if the conversation goes wrong or they can no longer stand the thought. You have nothing to report and with such statements you can ruin a relationship! They can do that themselves nicely and you should never listen to others.
You are only jealous because you have no girlfriend!
He reacts aggressively, defensively, etc., he thinks he was in something before the relationship. With us he doesn't lack anything, we have enough S * x and I also follow his wishes. That's why I don't understand the visits, can you explain that to me? As a man? And as someone who goes to something like that himself? Why despite a girlfriend… What's so great about a pouf? Or especially
Sauna is not the normal sauna. There are naked women running around who can be bought. And I think at 1am he doesn't go to the sauna to relax and withdraws 300 euro. If he loves me and only wants me, I don't know what he wants from other women. : / in itself I don't find it that bad, since he has no affair with them but only once. I'm more bothered by the fact that he's lying to me, lying is more of a bigger problem, I don't know if a person will ever change thanks for your answer.
Oh, it wouldn't bother you if he pimps one in the barrel house. All right. Then I don't understand your excitement anyway, so I wouldn't want to share my partner at the moment or even let myself be shared. Sorry, if you're in this mood, you both have a problem somehow ^^
Maybe he doesn't want you, or thinks he's a blatant stallion. As I said, you don't even care, you just lie. A really great friend, you are not in my eyes either.
