Please do not switch off! It is really urgent!
Hello first UwU '
And a good friend of mine and I have a real problem right now. We just don't have any topics to talk about right now. When we talk on the phone, we usually only remain silent or exchange the typical phrases. We're starting to get frustrated. And we can't meet either because he doesn't live in Germany - yes, but because of the current circumstances, that's not possible. I suggested that we just stick to writing for the next few days. He agreed.
But that doesn't change the fact that we don't have any more topics…
We have already tried a lot. He suggested games we could play, but Game 1 didn't work for me and Game 2 was stupid. He doesn't like Game 3 and Game 4 can't stand my laptop (in terms of performance). We also watch YouTubers differently. I suggested someone, it wasn't his. He suggested someone to me, wasn't mine. We also listen to different music. We have already chewed through most of the topics or are not interested. We have visited websites that offer topics of conversation so many times that we no longer need them.
And the word string is no longer too much fun either: /
It's terrible. We no longer know in and out.
Can any of you help us please! Have you ever been in such a situation? How did you get out of there?
I'm currently also unable to meet with my college friends. But we prepared (I set up a Minecraft server, a CS: GO server, a CS: source server and a server for the open source shooter Sauerbraten). So we have a lot of games that really run on every PC, and we also have a lot of conversation topics. We organize everything via Discord, even a friend of mine with a 2008 pre-made PC can play along.
Dreaming clear would be a very interesting topic. So you can learn to control your dreams and share your progress. Find enough luck on the Internet.
What's the point of talking or writing if you don't know what? Just leave it for a while, this forced is terrible and only annoying.
Uff… My friendships always fell asleep at this point, and we looked for new friends… Maybe you might learn a new foreign language together, e.g. Brazilian…
I wouldn't put myself under any pressure to always have to talk about something. I only call my close friends once every 1-2 months. Until then you may have experienced something to talk about. Otherwise the conversation will get a little shorter. This low contact frequency does not detract from the feeling of attachment to my friends. So my suggestion: Just take a few days off; Friendship also works if you don't force constant contact.
That's why we're currently only writing
Minecraft was a good idea of yours, thanks ^^
