My mother works as a lunchtime supervisor in elementary school and, together with other colleagues (including a male with whom she speaks from time to time, my father doesn't mind and there are also many women there), looks after the children who are after the School still stay there.
She doesn't live very Islamic - unfortunately. She doesn't wear a headscarf etc. She wants to buy me a new laptop with her money. She does not get any interest on her wages, bank account etc. Only now I'm heavily forgetting about whether the money is haram.
I found an official fatwa (scholarly opinion) on the subject that says the following:
'A woman is not allowed to work by leaving any of her organs untouched. Is prohibited. However, the income she has made in this way is not prohibited as it is used in return for your work. In other words, she would be a sinner because she worked uncovered, but her income would not be forbidden for that reason. "
We're here in Germany. The legal basis are GG., StGB. And many more.
Opinions of people with views from the Middle Ages do not count here.
Who nailed your mind like that? That's where you should start, not with your mother, who tries to give you a comfortable life.
Yesterday I already expressed myself about your arrogant insolence.
Why should it?
Your mother doesn't do anything illegal. She just makes money that you probably get some of too.
Incidentally, in Germany the husband does not have to allow his wife to work.
No, there's nothing wrong with that and it is entirely up to her to decide whether she goes to work or whether she wants to wear a headscarf. You don't have to interfere, it's their business. It doesn't matter that a man works there too. Funny worldview
If you live in Germany - which I assume - German rules apply. And your example text offends against them. Your mother can work whatever and for whom she wants without having to ask you or any other "man" beforehand. And whether this is "haram" according to your belief or not, that has - if at all - to judge only you and no one else. Because NOBODY in our country has the right to forbid another adult and responsible person to work or to earn money. And there's absolutely nothing dishonorable about volunteering, i.e. Unpaid work - on the contrary! ^^
Incidentally, in Germany the husband does not have to allow his wife to work.
By the way, not for 43 years.
For women who have lived in the former GDR for around 70 years.
Nobody asked about German laws. He wants to live according to Islamic rules and that is his right. And you know that.
If he * she doesn't want the laptop, then he * she should earn his own money. Who does not want it, already has it. But such, with all due respect, idiotic questions do not have to be answered seriously.
It is only his "good right" as long as it does not break the law applicable in this country. And YOU know that very well! Because even his Islamic rules have to be subordinate to German law! ^^
