So following, I'm m / 14 and had just been away for 3 hours, when I was back, everything was gone. PC, laptop, television, Ps4 - everything that I bought with my money! She (my mother) thinks I'll be there the whole day - no wonder because I have no other options (I can't visit anyone, have no games that are appropriate for my age, have no games that you can play alone, I have so almost nothing) my mother also says that my grades have deteriorated, but it is because I have a lot of stress with my mother, e.g. B. If I come home from school and eat something and want to use the cell phone for 20 minutes - my mother, boahhh, on the cell phone again. In addition, I have all the stress because my mother has adopted a new religion and is now completely strict-z. B. Yes you are not allowed to use the cell phone, you are not allowed to use TV, you can't have friends who do not have the same religion, girls are not allowed to put on make-up or wear jeans, you are not allowed to use a PC, etc. She annoys me abnormally and that's why I have bad ones Grades. My mother always has to be right, regardless of whether she is right or wrong, and if you ask her about the mistakes, yes, that's not true at all. Can I do something there somehow? (And now please don't answer from other mothers who think that my mother is allowed to do everything, because that's not true!) Please help!
What about your father At 14 you can decide for yourself where you want to go.
He lives with my mother and he is also pissed off
Which religion is that? If things get really bad, I would contact the youth welfare office
Baptist
Talk to him about it.
Suddenly subscribing to a religion and going through very extreme life changes is no accident.
You can't talk to my mother, she'll get my name again, I'm right and I'm sticking to it
It's certainly not your mother's fault that you deteriorated in school. It is in your best interest to learn at least enough that you don't sit down and get a good school leaving certificate.
If your mother has joined a sect, however, it makes sense to consider the extent to which your father can take a greater part in your upbringing, since your mother can't expect you to completely submit to her new faith.
A well-founded withdrawal of individual objects as a means of pressure to motivate you to learn is one thing. But isolating yourself completely from your friends goes against proper parenting.
The restrictions due to Corona are massive, denying you access to social media goes completely beyond a meaningful education for independence.
Declined.
Then you and your dad have to draw conclusions from this
A short-term confiscation of the things for the purpose of education is possible. With permanent confiscation it becomes a little more difficult.
She wants to take it away from me until I have children!
That is then not permitted, but I do not know the specific situation.
Then you can't have friends at all, sorry that I have to say that. But your mother has some advice. But believe me, a lot of mothers have one at the waffle.
