My BFF sings professionally.
It feels like she tells me every month about some entrance exams at some singing schools, I totally lost track…
And she spams me MINUTE POINTLESS videos on Snapchat.
Where she really films for example 1 min what she is watching on Youtube or a scene in How i met your Mother.
And no matter how nasty that sounds, I don't care.
That's why I usually click through the videos.
Yesterday she sent me another video and I only saw that she and her mother were sitting in front of the laptop.
Since I assumed that you will explain what you are looking at, I clicked through to the end and only at the end I hope we understand you are writing back.
And then I just responded with a smiley face.
And jz write me how I can't rule on the "most important decision of your life".
I then wrote that I hadn't seen that.
What should I do, apologize and say I didn't hear the video right?
Oh god, that sounds completely crazy. So I think that you should be honest very urgently. Tell her that this is just too much for you. Wouldn't that annoy everyone? For once, you can spam a person completely, but continuously? Difficult.
Why don't you watch the video properly again when you have heard them say "Let's hope they react"?!
In general, you should have told her much earlier that you are being spammed and that you are not interested, but that you are happy for her. Now tell her honestly how it is / was!
I would tell her to tell you important things on whatsapp
She said to jz "Don't worry, I won't send you any more videos" in a snotty voice, what should I do now?
I would write to her: I thank you from the bottom of my heart that you understand my situation and come to meet me. That means so much to me and I'm happy to be able to write to you in a much more direct and personal way again without a video. I feel much closer to you again.
Maybe that will give her the opportunity to calm down
