I've been living with my grandparents since I was 6 and my father has a new family and he really gives them everything from Iphone12 to Predator laptop and for me he is even too stingy to lend me 5 euro. So not that I'm probably jealous or jealous, but I find that very sad. How can I deal with it (better)?
Difficult topic.
I think your dad is trying to get along well with the "new" family with "all might". But he is and will remain your papa. He certainly doesn't mean it badly, but is currently driving with a view of the tunnel and is focused on the new family.
I think that will go away again. Maybe you can give him a bad conscience and tell him that you have the feeling that you love the others much more than you - that should be a little stab in his heart and open his eyes again and show that you are too are still there.
I understand that you are disappointed and I'm so sorry to read something like this: (
Feel depressed bro
Well that's actually been the case for 5 years
No matter. Tell him that it hurts you and that you feel that he loves others more than you do.
Should force him to rethink.
That is bitter.
But getting material things like that doesn't say anything about how he usually treats children.
I hope your grandpa loves you and you have a good life.
It's extremely dewy, I always get the cry myself when I read something like that. But somehow you have no choice but to somehow deal with it.
You don't write your age and you don't write anything about the extent to which you are in good hands with your grandparents. Do your half-siblings have such great grandparents? Are these your mother's parents - where is she? Deceased? Then it is definitely twice as difficult mentally.
One would have to know the other circumstances better to see if you can pull yourself up positively on what you have.
In the future, it could be important that you document these injustices well. If you are unlucky, you will be responsible for your father later. But there are ways you can take care of yourself when you are 18. For now, just write everything down.
You can deal with it by never comparing yourself to others.
Accept that your father is a different person, so to speak, in his new family.
Of course, such an observation makes you sad at first.
But don't let that pull you down. Rather focus on positive things in your life. You may meet someone who enjoys giving you generous gifts.
Let love in your life Be ready to accept love…
Gifts, generosity, and love can come from so many different angles. You don't have to rely on your father.
I know it's not about the material but I have the feeling that I have been replaced.
Write your father a very personal letter describing what it is like to have to live far away from a happy family and have been forgotten.
He and my grandpa are the only people I have left.
You don't know any other soul?
Well, I only have fake friends and my siblings are all mega wrong and just lie around.
Exactly.
Then open yourself internally to new experiences and new people. Maybe you give it a try with gratitude
So I'm 12 and my mother died about 5 years ago and last year my grandma fought cancer, but unfortunately she lost the fight.
Oh dear, what now? Does grandpa take care of you alone? They were probably your mother's parents. I think that's bad, but there are at most like-minded people where you could feel accepted. Wise advice from us won't do you that much good. Neither do pity. There's a group of young people and children here who meet and have experienced something similar. Maybe your grandpa can help you find one near you. I hope you can talk to Grandpa openly about it, maybe not right now. But it would also be good for him if he could exchange ideas with others.
No, those were my father's parents and yes I live alone with my grandpa, but some of my siblings are in homes or are of legal age, but I don't want to have anything to do with them because they all just lie and are simply wrong and my brother with him I got along well broke off contact because my stepsister had imputed something to him.
It's getting worse and worse for you.
Then I can only advise you one thing: focus on your path in life with everything that goes with it: school, homework, learning. This is the only way to lead a self-determined life, with the chance to get along with your money later and do your own thing. Focus on what will get you ahead. It doesn't get you any further to rummage through the past or to look at who is better off among your strange circle of relatives than you…
