I want to get a new laptop with 4GB RAM, but my mother says that's not enough. Is that correct? The storage for the hard drive is 320GB and I thought until now games are always saved on the hard drive. Can I download several games at all or is the RAM really too small?
This is nothing.
Ram is memory so the game runs as you play it.
And whatever you play, you also need a relatively good CPU and a mediocre graphics card
RAM is the main memory and has little to do with the actual memory, it is something like an ultra-fast buffer. Nowadays 4GB (at least for a laptop) is actually rather little, especially if you want to play games. I recommend at least 8GB and if possible an SSD (hard drive) :-)
The ram is really too small.
4 GB RAM is not enough. Buy at least 8 GB.
The RAM is the short-term memory of the computer, so to speak. Too little is something like Alzheimer's - things are always forgotten and you have to read them (from the hard disk). That is of course slow.