Envious of your friend's life, how do I get used to it?

For a long time I already have the problem. I'm jealous of my friend and feel a little bad. He is almost 2 years older than me and goes to a Fackgymnasium, which I will visit soon. He often talks about that he has not much to do and his everyday life rather boring. However, I feel bad, because his parents earn a lot of money and mine well not much. I have hardly any contact with my father. I have never been abroad or had a really nice holiday. He has been allowed to travel so many times and he does a lot with his parents. To the… Is he today at a concert with his buddy. I'm just a little disappointed in my life so far. I'm very focused on the school at the moment and write very good grades in all subjects. He satisfies, however. I do not know. I'm totally jealous that he can do such cool stuff and also has expensive things. I also have cool stuff like him… But I wish I had what he got. In addition, I was excessively injured when he called my laptop unusable. I easily get out of my skin… So only if he says so. Not with others. However, I love him very much and I'm afraid that this envy is the end of our relationship.

Greeting anti!

There's always someone who is better. You have to live with that! I also live minimalist, envying others for wealth, but is wealth in life all you want? Many unfortunately yes

You know what you want, and you see it in others. This is a wonderful gift, because only in this way can we acquire the skills to strive for this for ourselves. It's great to be jealous.

The problem is only when you want something, but you doubt it can reach it. Then another like to become the symbol of our unjust devil, although we're justified in denying ourselves.

In that sense, you are offended instead of seeing the other side, which conflicts with your illness by recognizing your desire.

You suffer for that in the sense that you refuse to go and see.

That's why I would recommend you to know what you want and to know that you will achieve it. Just do not let yourself be stopped by the limited paths you recognize. There are many ways to reach your goals.

If he is your friend, he should let you in on his "cool" things and involve you. Friends usually share everything and are not jealous of each other. First, talk about your thoughts and feelings with each other, then this will also be with envy.