My boyfriend is chilling in front of a friend in boxer shorts?

Cl
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I need a second opinion.

My boyfriend was with a friend of his yesterday, they know each other through their studies. However, she is married and lives with her husband.

Last night my friend sent me a picture that showed the friend (she did something on the laptop). However, my friend's legs were in the picture with him lying on the couch in boxer shorts. When he just sent that, he pulled the message back in a second and sent me a new one where only she was on it. How am I supposed to understand that? I still have the picture because it ends up in my gallery.
Would you find it okay if your boyfriend chilled out with another woman in boxer shorts? Her husband was there as far as I know, but I don't think that is appropriate.

What do you all mean?

Ul

Of course that's not okay! And I would ask him why he is sitting on the couch in this woman's underwear!

I find it strange that he then pulled the picture back. I would be suspicious and wonder if this between the two is more than just friendship!

And why is he chilling with her and not with you?

Cl

I also think that shouldn't be! We're only at home in boxer shorts, underwear etc. And also not with friends (regardless of gender). I wouldn't interpret anything in there at first, but talk to him about it and say that it bothers you!

Be

I generally ask myself why when you visit a friend or a friend you take off your pants and also lie down on the couch in boxer shorts?

I wouldn't even do that to my best friend. How do you imagine that? "Hey, do you have a problem with me taking my pants off and laying on your couch?"

Very strange.

Her husband was there as far as I know

For sure?

Ba

My honest opinion:

If it doesn't bother her and him, it doesn't matter
He was wearing something (it is not much different from swimming trunks when swimming)
Is it not you or us?

Gu

Clearly it concerns her. This is your friend?!

Th

So that he has quickly withdrawn the picture suggests that he knows that you are very jealous or that he wants to hide something from you. But you should talk to him about it yourself if you want to. His reaction should show what he is playing. If he is looking for any excuses or if you have the feeling that he feels caught, you should be careful and investigate more carefully. But if he is honest and tells you, for example, that he has only withdrawn it because he is afraid that you could understand the wrong thing, everything is usually fine

Hope I could help.

ka

Nevertheless, it is not your property

Gu

And where did I say that?

Th

Your comment suggests that you think so… And now stop trolling

Gu

No. Then you make wrong conclusions. But that's still her boyfriend and loyalty is needed in a relationship. Did you all fall on your head somehow?

Th

I was so free once and reported you.

Gu

Oh no, now I'm scared