The question may be a bit strange.
In our class we have an autistic person, he has been there for many years and sometimes you just forget about his disability, even if he has a laptop for the school and sometimes a care.
For some time we have noticed that whenever he does something wrong or does something, he simply says it's because of his illness. He does that in things where it really sounds true, but also in very banal things.
Even though we asked after a few years, we were never told about his illness, so I can't do much about it.
Do you think he sometimes exploits his disability?
I, an autistic student, would find it outrageous to take advantage of his illness.
It's more a matter of mankind. You can use pretty much any property of yourself.
This can't be judged from the outside without experiencing the concrete situation. It may be that he takes his diagnosis and considers it a free pass for every behavior and it can be without calculation and he simply does not know it better. Ask him directly.
Exploit for what? To get better grades?
What disadvantage do you now dadruch exactly?
I mean, can't you care? Even if he exploited his illness, so what?
Well, just disturbs the class climate. With every little problem he comes to our class teacher, who then of course stands by his side and we're all yelled at for everything.
Autism is mega complex Sometimes it's trifles that are not so noticeable or banal to others, but it is very different for an autistic person.
You have to imagine that people with autism perceive everything and can't filter it. They feel the clothes on the skin, the chair on which they sit, they hear every little noise, etc.
Most of what can disturb an autistic person, you probably do not notice.
I think I already know what he's doing, often anyway. But that's difficult to judge from the outside.
That's a good thing to think about
How do you know what he's doing?
Where he looks, when he does something, that he knows the consequences, because that has happened many times. How he puts it, when he puts, say, petz. Other things, but do not know how to say that.
What is it doing? What exactly does he do?
Hiccup
What are the problems?
You were never informed about it?
Then the school management should get in touch with an autism representative.
Asperger has many facets that do not necessarily exist.
To blame him for the "bad" class climate, I think it's a bit too easy.
Do you see? That's the problem. You always just defend him, no matter what he does, you do not trust him that he can lie too. He is not the problem, but rather, that we should treat him like a normal classmate, but then something but not.
Hold small things.
Oh, of course…
then the probability is very, very high that you are unfortunately wrong.
He should have every right to go to the class teacher. By the way, you have that right as well.
Whether it is ultimately a trifle or not the teacher will then be able to judge.
The typical. Yes, he has the right. Actually. But then he does not need to be surprised if he becomes less and less popular. He's really just about things to class teacher, the other had already ticked off. Sometimes it seems he just wants to provoke us with it. He sometimes simply says that they are all guilty, even if only a few had anything to do with these arguments.
You seem to have a lot of personal problems there.
I would try in your place to gain some emotional distance.
Otherwise, take the opportunity to deal with such a situation. In your life you will always meet people who annoy you. Rumule is quite nice, but does not help you at all. Stand over it and do your own thing.
They do, but a lot of the class does not stop. You would not like it either if you had to spend your time listening to unimportant quarrels and then being found guilty.
It happens again and again, I promise.
Learn to handle it. The sooner the better.
Then he gets… Whatever that is, but that does not work. We've tried that many times before, but that's not all that easy.
I know that myself, too. But you do not stand idly by and say "this will happen".
I have not written a word that he is always telling the truth - just pointing out that he can't be solely to blame for your modest class climate.
Autism (here Asperger) is a complex issue whose symptoms can vary greatly with each aspie - despite similarities.
I mean that. Nobody says that we're right. Everyone says that we do not understand it because it's such a complex topic. You did not write that, and I did not write that he alone is guilty. But everyone thinks so. Everyone says he's normal, but there's something like that anyway. It's happened so often that he got away with it, but it becomes clearer if that does not happen.
Then he gets?
Believe me, an autist (Asperger) can lie in terms of recognizability and credibility, but I've never heard of autism using its disease as you dramatically report. : |
