Can I request my property by mail?

ry
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I would have a question because I do not find anything legal on the internet…

And that's about the fact that I separated from my friend last December and moved back to Hamburg because it had reasons why I'm so fast gone. At that time I lived in Augsburg with him and can't afford to pick up my remaining stuff technically because it is not financially possible for me to pay fuel for more than 600 km. That's why I asked my ex friend 100 times to send me the items, because it's about a laptop, a pc and some papers which I could not take with me because I had to go by train.

Now the problem is that he does not want to send me the things although I have deposited him in black and white that I have no way to pick up the stuff. Is there a legal way that I can take in such a case, because there are more than 600 km and I have no car at the time. Already after being stubborn, I already talked to his mother, who is also on his side and now I have no choice but to go to the police. I can deposit everything that I have paid for and that I'm entitled to. Thanks in advance that you have read all the stuff here xD

Wa

What do you want from the police?

He does not deny you things in principle, he just does not want to send them by mail.

I would not send a Lapp and a PC by post.

In the end, things get broken with you and then he is the dork again.

ry

Well, I've offered him more than the shipping costs as a thank you to pay and, among other things, he has already threatened me to bring things to the recycling yard. I just hoped that I can take something because I'm so far away because I could not go anywhere else

Bo

My opinion:

You have voluntarily left the stuff (probably more or less).

He is not obliged to send it to you. You may need to pick it up yourself or pick it up.

If it is his apartment where the things are stored, he could m. M. N. On the contrary, even asking to get your things or otherwise claim "storage fees" from you.

And the argument that you can afford you no fuel I see rather as advanced: long-distance bus with cheap ticket should be in it.

Su

DHL has services which bring the things from the front door.

Make an appointment with him when he is here and ask him to give the Achen the DHL messenger.

The concrete procedure can certainly be regulated by mail. These are the things also packaging if necessary.

Alternatively, there are other courier services that offer this kind of services.

Then he has nothing more to do than if you came to him and the responsibility lies with you.

If he does not respond, he can certainly do something about embezzlement.

Alternatively: if you have lived there certainly still has a two trusted known. Ask these people to do their favor to pick up the things from him and send them if necessary.

ry

How should I please a pc and laptop in the bus transport the power and things I have not even and in the fact I did not leave that voluntarily because it left me but for months verbally and psychologically so strong finished that I'm among other mahnische Developed depression and sleep paralysis So it was more like a flight than volunteering to go until I found a suitable solution for it…

ry

That's exactly what I offered him. And then I was only offended and made down. People that I'm rather not because I lived there only 3 years and I could meet him other than any other people because he is crass possessive and jealous

Bo

If something can be sent by parcel, then you can take it on the long-distance bus…

Su

If he does not agree to a pickup by a courier then it goes in the direction of embezzlement.

You should ask him in writing with a period of time (up to XYZ) to make an appointment with you for pickup.

If he does not respond then it's time to turn a lawyer on.

ry

Okay, thank you very much, I did not thank you so much.