Is it possible to stop a child from making monotonous noises?

I have a nephew who is 7 and likes to play on the laptop car, but can't shut up and I don't think it's nice to endure him like that for hours… He totally annoys me. I'm someone who likes to have peace and quiet tv is annoying that it runs in the background, but the child 😱 uiuiuu üüü quick weo wro uiuiui… 😫 I get tinitus because of that.

I like it, but it doesn't crack. He's also not calm when you say it, just stop annoying. I just say don't be so cheeky or I'll turn it off.

He also always howls when he is sent over by me after 2 hours. I think that a child shouldn't play all day on the PC. That is not healthy. Especially when it bothers me xD.

Unfortunately, I'm extremely sensitive to smoking… I can't wear oropax because of it either, I can hear it more quietly, but my breathing and heartbeat are uncomfortable. I can't even watch the film when he's playing because it's so loud…

I would like him to learn to be quiet, but is that even possible?

That is possible - but not your job…

Why is he with you

It comes with age, in 10 years he won't do that anymore… But you can't stop a child from being a child.

7 and likes to play on the laptop

And there's the mistake.
How about some child- and age-appropriate support / employment?

His father also says be quiet, it only lasts a few minutes… I don't know why it's always so loud. Are neighbors and when he plays over there I hear him too and write to my brother-in-law then he shouldn't escalate like that… How can you endure that all day? Or is it because it is your own child?

He can play, but he doesn't have to squeak like that. Children are so shrill 😫 sometimes the game has its own tone xD

He studies for school, does homework well and is one of the best in his class. He can also play games on the PC. He either plays a PC or a cell phone. Every now and then PS4 but otherwise he has his stuff to play with.

Because I'm his aunt and he can play pc if he was dear. His father doesn't have a PC

You should show him how annoying it is to keep making sounds when other people are nearby and want to keep yourself occupied. Sit down next to him, occupy yourself with something that you are constantly talking about or that you are making tones that it is also disturbing for him. If he then says something, you can explain to him how you are doing with the noises he makes. You leave it when he doesn't do it any more. Give it a try, good luck.

Play computer games. He either plays a PC or a cell phone. Every now and then PS4

… At the age of 7! 🤦♂️

Believe me, nobody can be that annoying… I feel like we gruh where the little one asked that is an annoying noise haha.

I have already told him ee can play longer, but only when he is calm, but he can't and I already have permanent headaches and I don't get that in the long run.

So I think it's normal that when you were 7 years old you were still very loud. But too much on the pc is not so good now. Maybe you should go out with them and do something and not sit at home all the time. If the sensitivity gets worse, you should rather go to the doctor and have yourself examined.

If he's already good at school, he can spend a few minutes on the pc and it's now also holidays.

🤦♂️

He goes to the playground with his father, that's not how it is.

Unfortunately, I'm sick and can't get out like that and am somewhat limited in my health and therefore a little sensitive. I have permanent headaches, constant tension pains and I just want him, if he's allowed to play, that he is considerate and not so loud.

You really should go to the doctor for a check-up

I'm also being treated, it's a really long and lousy situation and I've been fighting for six years to finally get rid of the pain

Is not easy…

He also goes to school at the age of 7, so he can't always make sounds. I've had good experiences with my children, if I didn't like something, I copied them until they quickly realized that it wasn't nice and they left it. They also say, defeated with their own weapons.

The children do this unconsciously and are absorbed in the game. When you do something, do you do it in the way that others want it against your nature or in the way that it is in your nature?

Our pediatrician always said "half an hour a day - all together - i.e. TV, laptop, mobile phone, PC, Playstation, etc."

And for half an hour you can endure such noises…

Hmm then I hope that he gets calmer in old age