Equal rights in a relationship, when and how?

Ja
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I would just like to know what is meant by equality in a relationship? When do you have equal rights in a partnership and when is not?
My partner has a hard drive with heaps of naked women and a good buddy who is also naked. To me he said but that he wants nothing from her. He said to me he throws me out and separates when I store naked men on the laptop. Is that fair?

Ja

No, that is not fair and not equal. You are allowed to look at and store naked men as well. Furthermore, he is already on you when he threatens with a sacking. Kllingt after blackmail.

I also conclude that he has an apartment and you moved in with him. Otherwise he could never kick you out if the lease runs on both of you. Even that represents an unequal condition. He is allowed to make rules and you have to keep them. That's not how it works.

Ha

I can only agree with the previous speakers. If he is allowed to tell you that you can't have any other naked men on your laptop then you can tell him to do that too.

If you like that, it's up to you.

I find equality in a relationship is that both partners have the same 'rights'. If he intervenes in your privacy (for example, mobile phone), then you can too. If he forbids you friendships / acquaintances (men acquaintances then probably), then you can also do that. As one says so nicely, who cries into the valley, which must also tolerate the echo.

In principle, I mean that both are allowed to affect the life of the other to the same extent.

My opinion about it!

Ja

Habs already tried but why does he want to kick me out and he does not care about the relationship? He still has not deleted the pictures.

Ha

I do not know if he loves you in that sense then… I mean he still likes you, but… No idea maybe he does not care who his girlfriend is when he's physically compatible with her? Or he just trusts your love so blindly that he knows you are not leaving him and means that you do not dare?

If you want to know, get away from him. If he loves you, he will try to get you back. If not, is it worth it? But if you love him so much that you do not care if he feels the same way you do and you want to stand next to him, no matter what, then stay together, swallow it…

I can't tell you anymore. Hope it works for you somehow.

Ka

Something of… Ne quite honest? I can imagine that it hurts so that's why there are two things you can do. Either a conversation or you part! If you can't do it, he can't do it!