What should I do with my relationship [4years]?

I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years. We have a long distance relationship.

Between us it was about 3 years great. Of course we also had a bit of a quarrel with each other during the time. But again and again during the quarrels I have to listen to how the friends of their girlfriends have an apartment, etc. I have her constantly bought cell phones, laptops, etc. By selling my things. But that does not interest her as I see it. Because as soon as another girl has something better, the things supposedly do not work that I bought her. And I have to think about it automatically as I get her the better.

I was only 20 and have just finished school. And I try her constantly to explain that it is not so easy in Austria to find an apartment without start-up capital. I have done some dirty jobs and almost went to Lebanon (Bundesheer) just to save money and to be able to offer us a life.

So. Recently I moved with my mother to a community building. And I had to sign the lease also because otherwise we would not have got the apartment. That means I can't apply for a state apartment for the next 2 years. And I told her that she should study in Bosnia quietly, because the study takes four years so far and by then I would have a good job and could offer her an apartment,

But she does not want to understand. She wants to study in Vienna. And every time I have to listen to how I supposedly do not want to part with my family and how my mother supposedly dislikes her, etc.

I explain to her all the time that it is not the case and that, for example: an apartment in Vienna is very expensive, then come the operating costs and then the insurance for the car, the Internet, etc. Come on everything else. And where is the food, clothes, etc? And I will not even make a good start. And should I take care of her and her?

And today it's something escalating. She has started again with the topic that I supposedly can't separate and so on and I just told her again that I can't find a public apartment in Vienna and may the next 2 years since I have signed the lease for the current apartment.

And then she started insulting my mother and said that my mum does not like her, does not want her, even though my mother loves her over everything and wants to be in the family. But my girlfriend (or ex) does not want to understand that.

I have often told my girlfriend she should not talk bad about my mother, because I do not do it over her. And it's also about respect in the relationship. I have no one but my mum and little sister in life. I have no contact with my father. And yes. That should not sound like now that I do not want to leave home, just wanted to mention it.

You absolutely have to break up with this person! She just uses you! This is really under all sow what she does. Use it, that you have a long-distance relationship and break off all contact!

First, it is not at all that she gets materially supplied by you, then always dissatisfied. She only wants to have status and does not pay attention to her environment, you only get more and more unhappy with her later! Do not shove it in your throat!

Then fight their desires by insulting your mother, is now absolutely nothing more! This person only plays a left game with you. Save yourself as fast as you can. I ask you, finish it, change your number. I hope she does not know your current address.

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