Is my opinion on my father more just or outrageous?

(Small Info: I'm 16 years old and I'm not a Turk if anyone is surprised about the fake name)

My father had never had a proper childhood as a kid, and when I was a kid, wanted to reflect it all to me, told me that I had it so easy and his life was 1000 times heavier then. My mother told me back then that she raised me alone because my "father" was too lazy for it, he just had no idea about education and if my mother had not been there, I probably would have gone crazy today. I actually wonder why my parents got married, between the two there's no love, only friendship. Apart from the fact that he has been living in Germany for over 20 years and does not speak any grammar, he is also incompetent in life.

I quote his sentence that he said to me many years ago "If you can't do one thing, then teach yourself and do not ask for help all the time"

I would say double morality. Write letters / email, make phone calls, make online orders, make contracts, household problems I do everything myself, his excuse is "I can't speak German"

That really the easiest matter of course is not capable of showing its incompetence. When called at home, he does not even dare to take the call, but he gives me the phone or my mother.

Online orders he does not know how to do it. Wlan registrations and contracts I have made. When he noticed black workers at work, I had to write 3 letters. Then he wanted to sell his car then, I was 1-2 hours on the laptop to put the sale online, in the end came no thanks but rather a complaint because he said that it would have been a small job.

Since next year diesel vehicles will be banned in many cities, he now wants to sell his car in a hurry and buy another car, of course I do the things, I have to sell the car for him online, had to call 4 times yesterday, write 2 times email, call 3 times today, write an email one time. He really asks me the stupidest questions such as. "How can I contact the buyer?" There was no phone number, but on the first page you saw that there was an email, and I still have the peace and quiet. But at some point it did not work anymore, he's looking for the car he likes, I'm doing the appointments, selling his current car and I'm supposed to follow his life as well?

I do not complain about all the errands (for family I do that), I complain about the incompetence. I'm sure if he would try everything himself instead of always asking for help, he could do more stuff but he's just too lazy.

For me, he has never been a real father, just because he is different, even if we always go to relatives or acquaintances, says my father always bad things about me.

It's nice to know your way around the internet, and it goes without saying that you do things for your dad that he can't. After all, you live with him and live from him. If you do not like it, then move out and master your life alone. Then you do not have to complain anymore.

It's just a simple person and not his fault.

Just respect that