Did my parents do that?

av
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I'm 21 now but I have a question that has been bothering me for years.

When I was 13-14, my mother had met a new man. He moved in with us and since it was with me only mountain. He drank, every day. Could not hurt me or my friends. My mother only had eyes for him. I was never at home. Only for sleeping. He had forbidden me to take any friends home. Later I'd taken my laptop away during the hardest part of my life (never left the house for months, depression, etc.) The laptop was my only contact with the outside world. I did not even get out for dinner, and nobody cared. I only ate, when the two were already sleeping. If any.

The guy had no custody of me. And wanted to "educate" me.

At some point later, the two had locked me up at home and are somewhere. Walk or something. I'm completely crazy. The situation was new to me. And then I discovered that I have claustrophobia. I just wanted to get out. I climbed over to the balcony of the neighbors. These were not at home. I almost jumped down from the 4th floor.

My question is - was it legal to do this to me?

(About morally I do not think I need to ask.)

Could I have got help then?

La

"My question is - was it legal to do this to me?"

No! Your mother has failed completely!

My

Nobody can do anything for your mental disorders, they only belong to you!

Ka

In my opinion, that was the deprivation of liberty. You should have auditioned at the youth welfare office. Alone to the alcohol consumption and brutality of this friend would have helped you. In fact, he did not have the right to forbid you anything, as the right to education was still with your mother.

av

What could I have done? Police, youth welfare office? Oh yeah. The woman is hell, believe me.

av

Thank you! Reassures me. I was only told for years that it was me who did everything wrong.

La

The Youth Welfare Office would have been the right place to go and when you were locked up and your mother and her life companion left the flat, you could have been liberated by the police. That was deprivation of liberty and what would have been in the case of a fire? That was certainly against any law.

ag

No lock up is totally prohibited and should actually come to the display?
whether this still is today is questionable?