I hate my mother?

Em
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My mother checks me every day today but it was really bad 1. My mother saw something today that is very private for me 2. I left my laptop on after my conference and she went back into the conference to see if we were Really quit but suddenly my teacher was in there and my mother thinks I'm skipping again or something but we actually ended up 3. I turned on my ps4 when my mother came from work to watch Netflix and then my ps4 is loud and now she thinks that I gambled what I'm not allowed to do during the week and I was even so stupid that I didn't close a game and she saw that

What should I do that annoys that you have to know everything, I just hate it and my birthday is on Friday

Gu

These are all little things, mine is much worse and I don't hate them…

A quiet conversation could help

ts

TALK TO HER - there's nothing else you can do.

Em

You can't talk to her normally

Gu

Have you tried it yet?

Then talk to your father

Em

Especially not with my father

Gu

You seem a little stubborn to me.

If you don't talk it will never work.

And I guess you've never tried it

Em

You're right, but you don't know what my parents are like

and the worst thing is that they tell everyone and my father too and he'll be really pissed off

It's my birthday on Friday and I wanted this week to be really nice, but it's not

For 3 years I haven't even had a day that I didn't feel stressed out this week, but no then it couldn't

I also don't believe in God anymore because I asked almost every day but no longer because everything just sucks and if God existed he would help me but nothing gets better

Gu

Let's write privately

br

1. My mother saw something today that is very private to me

then you shouldn't have left it lying around so obviously. Or stop e.g. Put away your laundry yourself (e.g. If you have hidden something in the laundry drawer).

2. I left my laptop on after my conference and she went back into the conference to see if we really had the end but all of a sudden my teacher was in there and my mother now thinks I'll skip again or something but we actually had Enough

the misunderstanding can easily be cleared up - with the help of the teacher if necessary. Where is the Problem?

3. I turned on my ps4 when my mother combed me from work to watch Netflix and then my ps4 got loud and now she thinks that I gambled what I was not allowed to do during the week and I was even so stupid that I played game didn't close and she saw that

in that case unfortunately went stupid. You will hardly be able to prove that you did not play and if you are honest from a parent's point of view it just looks like you have played. Just learn from it and give the game out to be on the safe side

br

And the worst thing is that they tell everyone and my father too and he'll be really pissed off

Of course, your mother tells your father such things - he must also know what happened so that both of them can pull together in terms of their upbringing. If she wouldn't do that then he would know e.g. Not that you e.g. You have and would allow you to watch TV when your mother is out of the house. Parents aren't completely stupid either ;-)

It's my birthday on Friday and I wanted this week to be really nice, but it's not

your birthday is on 1 day - so why does the whole week have to be great? Apart from that, you can't really celebrate your birthday at the moment anyway - it's stupid, but that's how it is. Can't be changed. But then to get in a bad mood just because a birthday is not perfect - I find that a bit childish

I also don't believe in God anymore because I asked almost every day but no longer because everything just sucks and if God existed he would help me but nothing gets better

just pray and wait for a miracle to happen - it doesn't work. God may give you the spiritual power to change things - you have to do it yourself

Em

She doesn't just tell my father, and that about the birthday you're right is a bit childish

and that about God I think if God would love everyone equally, he would not have created such people