Excuse not to use laptop?

My father would like to use my computer, but I can't give it to him because otherwise it's "dirty" (I have to wash, but they don't know anything about it and don't want to tell you). What excuse can I use?

Tell them the truth

I don't want that because they wouldn't "understand" it or would take it lightly.

The easiest thing will be that you just put the truth on the table. That will surely clear up some problems that may (could) lie in the future right now and here.

I don't want that because they wouldn't "understand" it or would take it lightly.

Since you are sure to get into conflict with everyday life about your OCD countless times, it would be the smartest thing to just deal with it honestly.

It just makes things easier for you, and also for your parents, who otherwise have to try their own interpretation of some unusual behavior.

In addition, obsessional neuroses rel. Treat well.

Just ask why he doesn't buy one himself and whether he could at least clean some places before using it. Excuse: go to Ner website no longer remember the name. "My PC needs a Windows update" play the animation and press F11 to make full screen. So the website where the animation is. Just search win 10 update anim

I can understand that one is ashamed of such an obsessive-compulsive disorder. But I think the advantages of pouring your favorite pure wine are clearly superior to the possible risks. To be honest, people who don't want to have anything to do with you just because you have to wash your hands, you don't need them in your life.

So in my opinion, don't talk about it at all, but describe it directly as it is. Maybe then your people will understand better what makes you tick.

a good friend of mine is e.g. In his childhood he was beaten by his father. We can talk to each other about EVERYTHING. But he never told me THAT. Even if we have known each other since our youth. After I found out about it by chance, I realized a lot.

Thanks. And I'm very sorry about your friend.