Must always go to bed so early - What can I do about it?

I'm 15 and my parents especially my mom really ALWAYS sends me to bed on weekends at 7am, sometimes 8pm. If I say no and say I'm 15 and not 6 then I'll be freaked out and my dad comes in person and grabs me immediately to bed. Then I can't get up anymore, do not open the door anymore. It is forbidden to read, do not turn on the lights anymore. When it's still light outside, the blind is lowered so it's dark and I hate it. Again and again, I check if I'm lying in bed. I can do nothing but wait and secretly play on the phone… Until the sleep go. Often then synonymous withdrawn cell phone, laptop withdrawn or Ipad ban, etc. Why are the so schice? Can one defend against it?

I think that even as a morbid behavior of the parents, clearly you should not let a child go through but you should leave the child the privacy, what you can do about it I do not know if they do not take you seriously is just really bad, do me Sorry, I can't think of anything. But do not let it all down, and if it gets too bad and you do things that you do not understand and hurt you, maybe you should even go to the police, eventually it will be over

That's bad, but it's not prohibited either. If your parents do not talk to you, you may want to indirectly influence by asking a trusted parent of your parents to help. But that depends entirely on your specific situation, there's no such thing as a panacea.

One approach is to think about it or to question why your parents send you to bed so early. Maybe the solution can be found there. Do they do it because they want their peace? Or do you think you are getting too little sleep?

Go to the youth welfare office there you will be able to help.

I asked them, many times and they say: because WE say that you are not yet 18, school is in the first place and that's why you will go to bed when we say it, little girls belong early in the bed etc etc such things come then. I mean, I'm 15! HELLO?

Unfortunately, there are always parents who have their "educational power" until 18 Lbj. Traverse mercilessly.

The receipt later is that the children turn away from them and the relationship is permanently damaged.

Since you have already tried a lot to find understanding and solutions - without constructive result - it may be useful, if painful, to make the "best" out of the situation and these crass rules just secretly undermined (eg Continue the phone secretly or you dare to go to "confrontation", but you have to judge for yourself how much stress there's for you.

Stop by until you're 18 and do not give up, become self-employed as soon as possible and get a good foundation for later (school leaving, etc.)

Nonsense, there's no neglect. The well-being of the child is not at risk due to early bedtime.

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Demelebaejer

She is 15 and not 4. The youth welfare office can certainly talk to the parents if they are so persistent.

Nevertheless, it is no neglect and no reason for public intervention.

Unfortunately, you can't do anything to God. By the time you're 18, your parents are in charge.