What should I do about gambling / girlfriend?

qu
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My next problem is I have been with my girlfriend for over 1 1/2 years and started to gamble again (Ps4 / laptop) whatever, only the problem is she always wants or needs attention because it is not about that now gamble even when I read a book or something, it lacks attention.
and before I'm proposed here, the relationship is definitely not going to end because he always gives a solution to everything.

si

How about you talk to her If she wants you to spend all your free time with her and, for example, stop playing, but you don't like it, you have to find a compromise. Nobody can do this for you here.

Depending on what you play - can she possibly play along?

Ik

Talk to her about it, pay more attention to her. If it gets too pushy, you have to point it out. It shouldn't require 24/7 attention from you, you also have needs and hobbies that you want to pursue.

Jo

Talk to her! It is completely up to you to have a little bit of time a day just for you.

how old are you? Do you live together?

if she visits you extra and you gamble, I would find that too stupid. But if you live together, that's your right.

vlt. Can you agree on a time, e.g. Not longer than x h a day. She also has to learn to work alone or call a friend.

Ja

Good morning: 3 It is normal that you want your partner's attention but you shouldn't deprive him of his freedom. Try to explain to her that you also need your freedom and that gambling is part of it for you. I don't know how you feel but I would feel very restricted You don't have to sit on each other 24/7. I would tell my partner that I try to give him enough attention but at the same time you want to gamble for a few minutes / hours.

Wh

Now the question is: do you live together? If so, then she can also sit / sit with you and do something yourself - that's how I do it. My friend is also a gamer and if he wants to play The last of us 2 as often as possible, I can read next to it or whatever and interrupt him after 3-4 hours.

If you don't live together: why do you play / read exactly when she visits you or you?

qu

We live together I forgot to write, the problem is that when I gamble she comes after 15-30 minutes and says she wants to cuddle, what should I do without arguing

qu

We live together I forgot to write, the problem is that when I gamble she comes after 15-30 minutes and says she wants to cuddle, what should I do without arguing

Wh

Now why shouldn't that be compatible with a PS4? I even like doing that very much, I put my head on his leg and when a sequence comes up with something loading or a video is playing, he whispers my hair or the like.

qu

We live together I forgot to write, the problem is that when I gamble she comes after 15-30 minutes and says she wants to cuddle, what should I do without arguing. Well she doesn't think much of gaming, I just saw her 2 or 3 times for 30 minutes with a controller in her hand XD she is actually watching TV but I miss her watching TV again

Jo

Tell her in advance. Honey, I'm playing a little now, please leave me alone for an hour. You can e.g. Yes xy do.

is there nothing she does alone? Doesn't she have hobbies or friends?

si

I also had it. It's just their way. I don't think you can do a lot there. Then you have to box your opinion.