I'm again with my problems. I accidentally found some photos on my laptop which my husband (currently complicated) used a lot and there was an album of pictures with him and his ex girlfriend in common. It was still before my time, but it really hurts me that he even has it. After all, it's my laptop. I'm just wondering if he deliberately left it to me and I should see that. I'm afraid he is still very much attached to his ex girlfriend, although they were together for a few months, but he seems to hang on to her as I said. With us it is not good from top to bottom. Well, we were 6 years together and two of them were married. Seems to have been his first love. Although he often assured me that he would never have fallen in love until he met me, but found certain women very attractive and in this regard, yes. You know. He once said to me that I'm not the first person who can't stand him and then he added, I thought to you you could endure me. You were and are my life. On another day he suddenly went after me after a quarrel and said we have a son and you are like my daughter, I love you as if you were my daughter, I can't live without you two. To this day, I'm still confused about this statement. What do you think about that? I would love to know your opinion. Do you think there are men who feel different for example for any two women. But do you love being sexier, for example, more attracted to one? What do you say to that? It's all over with me anyway, I'm having a hard time right now and the longer I think, the more I try to search hidden messages in his statements. He said he would rather die without me and our son… So no idea. Somehow I just really do not know where front and back is. Ask for advice.
If my partner would say to me that he loves me like a daughter, I would reconsider the whole relationship. With his daughter you have no sex u these feelings are very different than those to a partner
He still has pictures of himself and I do not find the ex so dramatic now. They had spent some time together, they are just memories.
That he does that on your laptop could be a hidden clue telling you that he is not just with you in his mind. Speaking of which, you said album, not that they do it together. Anyway, that's his past, what does he have that on your computer? Except that he may confuse you with it or, as I read (it does), might even upset you.
Try to make the best of it, if you want to stay a family, you have to go through highs and lows and be willing to cut back in the lows to give you another chance to rise.
Just ignore this with the album and orient yourself forward, into the future, not into the past. Things that have been gone are over so you can't bring any more behind the stove or impress later, they are sonic and smoke. Let's take it slow, maybe to bring it back into good shape, good luck
You've seen the problem, you're looking for hiding messages and thinking too much. You are looking for something and interpret it as it suits you. This is jealousy, you insult yourself with your own thoughts and let it go to him.
Become sovereign