Property taken away at 18?

My mother keeps taking my cell phone, laptop and car key from me with every little thing. I bought my cell phone with saved part-time jobs. Get a free laptop. The car belongs to my father and he gave me the second key. But my cell phone is simply more important all my appointments submission deadlines, contacts everything is on it. Talking etc. Brings nothing, she just doesn't listen and continues as before. If you treat me like a 12 year old you can't expect me to behave like an 18 year old. It takes away all my freedoms… And complains why I'm not helping with household chores. I don't commit myself when I seem so small. I also don't like to constantly beg for my things. What should I do now I move to mine but she still doesn't give me my things. Such a bad person looking for a fight. Eckelhaft, why do I love such a person anyway? It makes everything so much more difficult. Should have struggled with it all my youth and with the age of majority I finally thought it would stop but no. I always have to put up with it… It is extremely annoying. She gives me the sign to marry the next best person that comes your way and move out. She doesn't want that completely but pushes me there but no she doesn't understand it I already told her

You don't have to get married to move out. Act like an adult, stand over things, then you can report them for theft.

My mother keeps taking my cell phone, laptop and car key from me with every little thing.

I can't see how far this is legal. Defend yourself or display it.

If you treat me like a 12 year old you can't expect me to behave like an 18 year old.

I don't commit myself when I seem so small.

Spoken like a stubborn little teenager.

Obviously, you still need educational measures. Another question is whether they bring anything. I guess Mum would have had to act harder earlier. Does that still bring anything?

Do you also have a question you are looking for an answer to?

I really don't see how you could have saved your answer.

I realize that you don't see it that way. But it is the truth.

If you're so grown up: take the first step and behave yourself grown up. Then Mutti has no reason to punish the little one anymore.

Jou. I will!

So the usual adolescent fuss: insist on being adult when it comes to rights, relying on being child when it comes to duties.

Sit down with your mother in peace. Divides the household into fixed tasks. Show that you are ready to contribute your active part.

"I know I don't have to get married, but it hurt her the most"

Anyone who thinks like this shouldn't complain about being treated like a child.

Maybe she really wants to get rid of you, so it's time you should move out.

There's no point in doing anything to hurt your mother. You won't be happy with that. You need patience to get your revenge. Leave her on your phone, don't ask for it anymore, that confuses her. You don't want it anymore (even if it's difficult). You can also save yourself a new phone together and keep it secret from your mother. The little revenge: never give her a mobile number that could reach you, after all she took your phone away, right?

You're right! However, I have all my high school notes on this thing.

Suggest to your mother that you transfer the notes to another medium and give her the phone back. If you are on the phone, maybe you can do it without a SIM card? Otherwise, ask your father for help.