Let's start briefly: My mother had had a drink several times, and since it's New Year's Eve, she drinks too…
We had a visit from friends of her boyfriend 4 hours ago you stole my sister's Christmas present including a laptop, now my mother is angry… I understand her boyfriend brought his friends home with him without permission… But she grabs it so tightly again like every celebration, everyone has fun while we're here and shouting at each other…
My mother is actually very kind and caring sober, but when she is drunk she is a witch again, that goes from fooling around to insulting… She behaves like a different person… I don't feel like annoying and screaming at myself all the time let her! Then she also gives away my old toys without asking me, now some thief has my old toys… I don't want to go away either, that if she is sober it is just so nice, but I would like to get drunk the stupid river from the Kick your mouth, what should I do now?
She has to be shown it the hard way. You first have to get out of the situation so that she realizes that she has to change something.
If I take note of your way of expression, the details from your social environment (actually there must be an a in front of it), then I can only advise the youth welfare office and foster family. Still all the best for 2020.
If she's sober, say you want to talk to her seriously. Then explain to her that you are very depressed because you always have to suffer from her drinking afterwards. And when she is sober, she can be such a nice person. Also tell her that if she was drunk you would like to run away. You only do it because you love her and don't want to leave.
