Feel uncomfortable with friends, etc?

I don't even know how to summarize my problem. I have been with my boyfriend for a few months and since the beginning he has been making the impression that he is a nice guy and wants to help me, but somehow I don't think so in everyday life. He has made me cry several times because he is sometimes secretive if I ask he's annoyed. Says I should trust him. He was also away for a few days on business, said we were on the phone, etc., supposedly, but hardly called me during those days and came back later than he told me, he said he would come a day earlier he came later without a real reason, he often says something and when I tell him that is not true at all he says I twist the words in his mouth (I really don't do it:-() often I'm not allowed to touch him (e.g. Caress the Face briefly) because he is just not up for it or has finished speaking, then complains, for example, that I scratched him which was wrong. The next day he is "super nice" again.

I once asked him if he would help me with the move, he said yes, his friend had a car, when the time came he dodged and didn't want to know anything about it somehow, later I found out that his friend could very well help him with the move. ( suddenly.)

Feeling ridiculed and sad. He also always says he wants me to be fine, but hardly supports me and stresses me constantly (on purpose?) We practically live together and he criticizes every day how I do something (even if it's my things) and that I do it that way should do as he wants, otherwise he complains. I feel so uncomfortable every time I think: when I do something that annoys him it is stress again and in the end it is of course my fault:-( Sitting like on hot coals that stresses me so much that I'm often totally exhausted and have to cry Nobody from his family doesn't know any friends, if I ask him he likes to get to know my mom, he says annoyed yes, you can invite them here. It bothers him, for example, even when I'm on the cell phone, although he says it doesn't bother him asks every time I do what I do or when I use the cell phone in bed, he seems annoyed even though he says: I can do what I want.

I once told him hey we belong together (just as they say it as a couple) and he said to Flipper in full: I'm NOT YOUR OWNERSHIP.

I'm not allowed to go into his study (laptop) etc. Even though he says he has nothing to hide. If I ask him who calls him or who is friend xy, he is always annoyed. I just don't understand: - ((I can't ask him anything, everything annoys him on Facebook, we're not in a relationship and otherwise he somehow tries everything so that nobody notices that we have a relationship.

Sorry for the long text:-(

Is it all still normal or not anymore?

Then it can't be the right friend for a long time. A relationship should be love and not a constant fight, but you have to decide for yourself

You don't deserve these ones! 😢 If I were you, I would leave him. Okay, I know it's hard to leave someone you love, but what they do is just not love.

If he's not home again, just pack your things, leave a farewell letter and leave. Sometimes you have to leave someone to see what you mean to them!

No, thats not normal. I would tell him exactly what you are describing here and that you no longer want to lead the relationship like that. Either something changes, or you break up because you just feel uncomfortable and you can't trust him if he keeps hiding everything from you.

Sorry but your boyfriend is a fool. Very toxic behavior. If you let yourself continue to be offered you will sooner or later be very unhappy. Talking usually doesn't help. I mean he doesn't even want to get to know your parents. Even if you are still young that is the least. And anyone can have secrets, not in this mysterious way.

You can try to speak openly about the things that bother you and explain to him how you feel. But you should wait for the right moment.

He was also supposed to be gone for a few days on business but rarely contacted me during those days

He probably has a family somewhere and hence the business trips. You're supposedly writing so you don't believe him.

You have listed so many points that speak for a double life.

It would make sense to end this relationship as soon as possible.