My stepfather drinks somehow very often.
I'm a single child and often do not have it easy.
My biological father kidnapped me when I was 2 years old. And he died 3 years ago.
Mama is already with her friend all day and I'm at home with my stepfather.
He's playing a game on the laptop all day (he never admits it but I'm not stupid and he knows what that is.) And he probably drank again earlier, so what's the name of it? He sure was drinking! My mom called me and asked me if my stepfather can pick her up so she asks me because my stepfather has not gone to the phone. I told her her friend calls her right away. I told him to call her and he always said yes, but then it was 40 minutes later. Then he finally managed to call my mum but he just screamed into his cell phone and did not pick her up. Then he made me eat I asked for food at 16:00 but he just said "the same". And we've had such a mini-oven recently and it was not clean then he yelled at me and said: "Are you really that stupid? Do you want to beg because you have no money?! MAKE THE NOW CLEAN!" although he could have cooked the meat in the pan. People I keep crying I'm feeling so bad. I'm afraid what should I do? I'm a girl and I turned 13 in September.
Okay, are you worried that he is hurting you?
Can you go to a friend, a neighbor, or a relative? First of all, very acute? If, then do that. Call your mother, tell her your stepfather is drunk. But before you get to safety, if you are afraid.
So your stepfather should not talk to you and if you are afraid of him then maybe tell your mother or other person a trust teacher.
I do not quite understand the food, because with 13 you should be able to prepare your own food, but after a regulated environment it does not work and at home you should not only be safe but also comfortable.
My mother gave him a recipe today. Because he always wants to cook
First, do not panic, because he seems so busy with his game and the discussion with your mom.
If there's a danger that he wants to do something to you, try to get help somewhere (friends / acquaintances, to whom you may be able to) or bring you to safety elsewhere.
If not, then as I said first keep calm.
Is he just rude or has he ever done something to you? Is he drinking or does he drink so much that he loses control of himself? If so, then do not be afraid to take your time to get help and advice from a professional office (youth welfare office, public order office, police).
Can you talk to your mom about the situation? If so, let me help you too. If not, there may be other relatives (grandma, grandfather, aunt, uncle) who can help you.
Again, do not panic, but the other way around if something is not right or you are in danger / have a strong fear, do not be afraid to get you help. That's absolutely fine and you do not have to be ashamed or worry about whether it's wrong or right; there's no wrong.
lg, I hope that your mom then comes right away and everything calms down and if there are more problems and you need contacts, then get in touch.