Friend does everything behind my back and is dishonest?

We have been together for 2 years. Everything is fine between us, even in sex life.

1 year ago he wrote another woman on Instagram. Just asked if he did not see her shopping. Since I've become angry Stock. I honestly did not understand it. He said it had no background. In addition, he stalks his ex girlfriend. He eventually deleted Instagram on his phone so there would be no drama.

He has everything. Everything. I also always talk to him normal.

he secretly goes to Insta. You can see it there. When I spoke to him, it's just like that. Sorry.

I was just at the laptop and he has a second mobile phone there. His old one. There came news, he and he uploaded a new picture.

it's nothing bad, I'm just wondering what he's doing there then. Again, write to other women and take screenshots.

It is not a world drama, but I would like to wait for your opinion

Attention, two possibilities:
1. You give him the freedom to do what he thinks right on the Internet, give him your confidence. On the one hand, this can lead to unacceptable things that you can't live with, in which case the relationship is doomed. Or he behaves in an appropriate way and everything is fine.
2. You try to limit it further by your distrust, which is never a good idea, and you live a trustless relationship, which greatly lowers the quality of relationships.

I can understand that if that ever happened, that he wrote to another woman, that does not do the trust so well.

Maybe try talking to him again. Try not to be stressed, but speak in a calm, natural tone, then he will certainly listen to you more, because he feels less attacked.

I could not stay with such a person anymore. If he secretly does something, there must be a reason. Just talk to him! Really serious and ask him why he secretly does that!

If it continues like this, I would leave it. If my husband secretly did something, I would be gone very quickly. Sounds hard, but I would not bother to "change" it. I do not think he would stop it, I think he would rather pay attention and learn from mistakes and make everything better so he will not get caught.

Before that I had such a one - even worse.

I love honesty, no matter how hard and unpleasant it may be.

All the best and please do not lose yourself in such a relationship.

You may still communicate with others.

On the other hand, I did not say anything. It was related to the specific situation and the text that he wrote to the other and I find it understandable if it is then a bit unsettled.

He only asked if he saw her.

That's right, but when it comes to stalwarting his ex-girlfriend, that's a bit more complex than I think. I think that would not be so great.

I do not think that's great either, as I know, but that's actually a lot of people.

Whether he stalks the ex is only their interpretation. For some it is already stalking, if you congratulate the ex birthday. Apparently, when one is in a new relationship, one can no longer cultivate contact with the ex. (What I do not want to accuse the questioner.)

And why is she looking at his cell phone and checking his account?