The situation is the following:
My grandma lives in my aunt's house.
I'm often with my grandma and amche her everything (garbage out, terrace clean etc)
My aunt does not seem to like this and often complains me the worst or writes me angry messages (for example, the packaging xy is not made small in the paper waste, etc.).
My grandma does not think that's okay with her either, but she also says "she's like that, she can't change".
I do not want to help one of my aunts with anything ("Can you just come up with a laptop problem", etc.)
My grandma does not find that ok either I do not help my Tanre, but I do not see that.
How should I behave?
Just tell her that she could have made the stupid packaging small. You can also overlook something like that.
In a family you help each other and do not pampt each other for every little thing.
That you do not feel like helping the aunt in such circumstances, I can understand, but most likely provokes new noise
younger people are always expected to be insightful and indulgent.
I suppose your aunt is not satisfied anyway, even with herself and jealous on top of that. You should be sorry and you can practice yourself in serenity by taking the wind out of your sails. Before you go, ask her if you can do something for her. With a little bit of attention towards her, her behavior will turn positive towards you too (I hope no one can resist friendliness). That would be my advice, I experienced something similar and it helped me. LG
A sign of maturity would be to stand over your aunt's muzzles and help her.
She is just dissatisfied with herself or with her life. It's not right for her to miss out on others, but she probably can't get out of her skin either.
So, as I said, amch like your grandma, stands over it.
