Am I normal? I never meet with friends?

Co
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I meet vlt every 3 months with friends but never at my house or so but only after school for 2-3 hours to eat or shop. Otherwise, really never this year I met only once and was in town last week with a girlfriend but only because none of her friends had time. I would like to meet more often but in clubs or so I do not want to meet new friends something like this never works for me because I do not like to go to people or something.

My mother wants me to do something or something as I sleep a lot and sit on my laptop and also have to do a lot for school.

But I'm also not sure if I want to do more with friends but I feel so alone.

What am I doing wrong?

Ps: am W / 15 soon 16

Jo

You are not doing anything wrong. It's just not the right time and eventually it will come back to meet you.

As far as the club is concerned, it would be very good, because it also teaches people to go there - without going to people you go under, dear greetings

Cr

Apparently, a little more initiative is needed. If you just sit at home and give no signals, no one will come up to them and give you a suggestion for an activity.

So think about a specific proposal and ask one of your friends if she would like to come with you.

Co

Yes, but I can't do that on people. "It used to be a problem for me, but since a few years after a serious incident in my family, it's different.

Co

I'm always afraid that I'll annoy her when I ask and most of them do not have time at all

Cr

Especially when you are working in a club, you do not always have to develop an employment proposal on your own. You just go to regular meetings or training and join in. Over time, it can then develop very slowly that one gets into conversation with like-minded people and makes friends.

Cr

It may well be that this "lack of time" comes about because you do not enjoy priority with these people. But if you let yourself be discouraged and do not ask further, then nothing improves.

Either there's a favorable opportunity, so that you then have to play the golfer, but can develop something, or you are considering something really attractive.

Cr

Which hobbies did you have or do you have or would you like to have? Surely there's something that you can do in society too.

Jo

If the incident was so severe, get help and start freeing yourself. It is important that you go to people, otherwise you are completely lonely, kind regards