Everything revolves around him?

I have a problem and my mother's boyfriend moved in with us a few weeks ago. I feel like my mom doesn't care about me or she finds me annoying. Everything revolves around him.

For example, I used to watch TV with her in the evening, now he's always there and when I get around, my mother says I should go to my room and watch TV on my laptop.

Her boyfriend is also in the process of renovating our apartment because he really wanted to. Since he's doing that anyway, I thought something could be done in my room. There are cables hanging from the wall, the baseboards soon fall off and my lamp is barely working (the rest of the apartment has been made really elaborate). But my mother said I should not only think about myself and also about others. The apartment looks completely different now and somehow I don't feel at home anymore.

I used to spend a lot of time with her, but now she just turns me away. She also wants to sell my pony because it is too much time for her (otherwise she would always have time).

I can't even get to her because she's only interested in him. Sometimes I feel really worthless and unwanted. I know there are bigger problems, but it would be nice if someone answers me.

I'm sorry. Have you ever spoken to your mother about your feelings?

She may not even be aware of how you are feeling.

Thanks for your answer, I will address it soon

I find your mother's behavior unacceptable. She completely excludes you from her life.

Of course she can have a boyfriend. But you are their child.

I would recommend talking to her in a quiet minute - just you and her.

Or turn to the number against grief.

Difficult situation. Clearly.

Not explicitly your situation but this direction reminds me a little of the song "Augen auf" by Sido.

If I were you, I would really take your mother to one side (at best, of course, when the boyfriend is not around) and talk to her about it.
And if that doesn't work, maybe you can talk to your mom's boyfriend about it?

Maybe there's an aunt or uncle you can talk to who will then talk to your mother.

As a last alternative, I would even turn on the youth welfare office and tell you about your situation so that they have a de-escalating effect?

How old are you?

13