Smartphone relationship?

My partner gets very upset when I surf on the cell phone (I almost only read messages and chat with friends, which is not reprehensible in corona times). He is offended and explains to me how dangerous the rays are and can't relax. He is currently trying to talk me out of buying a new laptop. He bought a modern device 6 months ago. It totally annoys me. He also surfs a lot on his cell phone when I watch something on TV that doesn't interest him and I don't say anything. How can I teach him that?

Sounds like a mother-son conflict

For me the red alarm bells have come on and after your other answers they shine even more. I hope you take this answer as an opportunity to go deeply and rethink the relationship.

He seems to measure very much twice - did you ever ask him about it? Is it really the radiation or does he not like it when you are busy with something else?

Switch to flight mode and switch on Wi-Fi, the rays are there all the time anyway.

I told him that too. He thinks I'm unbalanced by the cell phone and can't switch off.

I also often feel like his daughter (he brings me to ride and picks me up or waits because he says he wants to support me…)

Ah. And how do you feel about that? And how does that fit with the radiation?

As very patronize. But then he's the gentleman again when I get upset

Do you know the cycle of abusive relationships?

You pressed "Like", so I presume to say something else: if you recognize your relationship very much, please pack your things and then go, and as quickly as possible. I have never seen anything that has turned out so well for the better.