What should I do if my father controls me?

Hi

My father controls me (13 years) all the time. He reads my messages all the time, goes to my laptop and listens to me when I'm on the phone. He can switch off my cell phone, hang up calls and see how long I have been / have been on the cell phone. Is that normal? Does anyone of you have a tip on how I can be undisturbed? I've said it to him several times, but mostly it ends up in a fight.

This is called parental care.

You are still a child and your parents have the right to find out about your activities on the Internet and on your mobile phone.

Bro it's the same with me

A return carriage is often useful. Had a friend who had an app on his cell phone where everything was checked. Since I have reasonably good technical knowledge, I had deleted this program without the official leaving. Then I showed him how to do it if you download it again. Then I told him that he should "control" his parents in a way. The whole 3 year problem was solved in 2 days. I personally don't think that's okay. What you do is up to you ^^ LG

There I'm based… I thought it was only for me

I'm interested in what a RIGHT would be? Is that anchored in the Basic Law or something like that?

Thank you.

For me it is unfortunately the same and it is annoying. Just ask yourself what the reason is and talk to him

https://www.familienhandbuch.de/familie-leben/recht/ehe-familie/ElterlicheSorgeBedeutung.php

Well, do you already understand that pocket money, Christmas and birthday gifts, cell phone costs and Wi-Fi for parents are not anchored in the law for children?

If my child cheated on me like this, they would get the receipt immediately.

Very good
aba can you also look for a paragraph where it matches this example given by the young man? Can an authority above you also allow yourself access to your private information? For the prevention of cyber crime, of course. Do you know that?

Yikes what if the boy has nothing but the Christmas presents. The prepaid contract is also not particularly expensive. ^^

Always try to stay relaxed and not hide anything because everything you hide will come out at some point

No, but you can certainly find that on the Internet.

Before the law, this is still a child - not even a teenager and nobody would veto if the question came from a 7 year old child.

The child is 13 and therefore financially dependent on the parents… He / she can only earn a few cents, but certainly not for a cell phone and a prepaid contract.

Young man, none of this is available here
do you understand that?
You don't really know here that your dad is doing it. If so, just talk to him.

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Tell him to respect your privacy. This is also yours.

You should go to the bathroom without asking when your father takes a shower.

Haha ok thanks for the tip.