I sometimes help my family and everything I get afterwards that either expect more from me or want more and if I can't help then they are really nasty to me. I have the feeling to be extremely exploited especially by my mother who only wants money. Have recently sold my old laptop and now she wants money from me? She does not work at all.
are you the same or do you know people who also have to go through something like that?
Just hit the table with your fist and show the people their misconduct, and tell them that they either change something or have to do without one in the future ^^
You have to learn to say no!
If she does not work, she gets money from the state she should get along with.
It can't be that you go to work and then you are still generous to your family and they always want more and do not thank you.
You have to say NO.