Is it normal that the shipment document is required when shipping abroad, and if it does not arrive within 3 days to reclaim the money?

I sold a laptop via EBay classifieds. A Texas surgeon slammed and bought the laptop for a friend in the UK. Now I have received a confirmation e-mail from Bank of America. There's that if I do not send the copy of the Sendem within 3 days, the amount transferred will be refunded. However, I'm worried that I will not get the money within the next 3 days, and then I'll send the laptop but never reach the money. To fake an e-mail from the Bank of America is certainly not an impossibility… I wanted to ask if anyone has experience with sending expensive goods abroad, and whether this procedure is normal, or rather unusual.

Ebay classifieds and then selling abroad? Is that possible?

LoL

you did not do that seriously?

expect that you will be ripped off

I would PAINT her such a document

NOT! TO SHIP!

That's cheating

"Nigeria Connection" as a keyword

Here's what to read:

https://archive.is/Fl616

https://community.ebay.de/t5/Mitglieder-helfen-Mitgliedern/Versand-ins-Ausland-Bezahlung-mit-der-HSBC-bank/qaq-p/3459092/comment-id/350906?nobounce#M350906

https://community.ebay.de/t5/Sicherheit-f%C3%BCr-Verk%C3%A4ufer/Betrugsmasche-mit-K%C3%A4ufern-aus-England-Treuhand-Gaukelei-Email/td-p/3367672

https://www.techbook.de/...-transport

Please turn on the brain:

Are there any more laptops in Texas and the UK… Above all, what do those with a German layout want?

Laptop is gone and you will never see the money